What will sex do to your relationship

 

 

Sex can help

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Can challenges in a relationships help you grow to a mature mate thus enhance your sexual life? The good news is YES challenges in a relationship will help you to grow, be better manager of relationship – and even have better sex!
The bad news is that going through low times in relationships is discouraging and can be very painful.

This times are not the time you should say no to your hubby.
Exceptional issues if hes physically assaulting you.
It can be overt scary and disheartening if you're going through difficult times in your relationship but listen this it’s inevitable, even the most stable, loving couples find themselves in funny issues that causes crisis.
Part of resolving the issue may be hiding it or fight by way of ignoring each other for weeks but you can't avoid it in especially in true committed relationships, in marriage the stakes can be higher. Crises the very first is after the very first year, meaning crises sure will come cram that inside your brain, they are inevitable and a normal part of a growing relationship. We let these major challenge develop into problem of divorce and or separation. This is sad because with the right counsel you will be able to look at yourself in the right perspective and be willing to tolerate pain for union, couples can turn these crises to time they experience ultimate love and have more fulfilling relationships and sex!.(this issue represent what I tried out in my relationship.I vent my anger on bed mostly evenings!)

How can relationship challenges and crises improve sex? Challenges put us in a fix a position to look truthfully at who we are re planning our course facing the issues about ourselves that need attention and even stand up truthfully to resolving it with our partners.
Am afraid because there’s no guarantee you’ll ever have a relationship like my this process can be personal. Forging through it can empower, energize, and forge a deeper connection with your partner.

When we realize who we are, we will accept responsibility for our limitations, and make necessary changes It is a junction of self realization you don't get to in days! When we feel great about ourselves it helps how appealing we can be to our partners. The hope is that couples can know that there is nothing wrong with them or the relationship – and that there is hope in knowing that what they are going through is a normal and necessary part of their relationship and, if they can tolerate pain for growth, they could come out the other end stronger and more satisfied.


1) Self exoneration when facing a tough conflict with your partner can heat things up (everybody will become Mr right) hold onto sincere values and be honest with yourself (at this moment its not an easy task identifying your shortcomings better consult your mother or a good counselor) if they believe in your relationship

2) Don't be anxious, step down your anxiety

3) Stop think before you do your 'thing' to your partner’s overheat (so when they fly off please stay calm)

4) Be prepared to contain some pain for your growth and your hubby

5) Don't neglect sex if your partner ask for it (during crises period)

6) Hold your faith in him or her don't let your next thought always be court, divorce remember no perfect person out there new people new challenges newer crises.

By doing these six things most always, regardless of whether your partner knew them(you can teach them when the heat is off) you will move toward growth, maturity, improvement in your relationship and even better sex.

I say don't hang in there make up your mind to stay with him/her

Experienced elderly couples can be a blessing to your family make them your official family friend that's why we have lesser broken home in Africa compare to other regions in the world. They can help you navigate your way through the potentially rough waters ahead. If you prefer to talk to a priest, pastor, rabbi, or spiritual counselor it can be very helpful, too. Religious leaders often times have a lot of help.

Finally
Sex shouldn't resemble Naked Twister Although considered not it. It last for few moments, yes but it is the glue that makes your bond stay.
A man beholding a woman through sexual feelings in first attraction is around 60%
Keep yourself sexually attractive especially when you are retiring for bed if hes aroused he will forget that argument at least for the moment please don't bring it up in the middle of it
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